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My name is Ross Wiseman and I was severely over weight. I am 35 years old and for the majority of my life very athletic. Five years ago I destroyed my shoulder in a dirt bike accident. I ballooned from 175 pounds to 230 pounds in a short period of time. When I finally started to get back into shape I tore my ACL in a soccer match. I began to gain weight again and quickly reached 230 pounds again.
If you don’t take control of life, life will take control of you. That is exactly what happened. Three years ago my family moved to Woodstock, GA to begin Embassy Metro Church. As lead pastor of a new and growing church I put the family and church before my own needs and quickly got into a routine of work and “low impact” family time. I didn’t do anything physical for two years. Oh, I bought a gym membership to another place, but I did not have the motivation or guidance to even reach the smallest goals.
This brings us to the part of the story where my life was given back to me. Last fall I met Debbie Roness. She is a personal trainer at Body Plex in Woodstock, GA. Our boys were on the same soccer team. As we made friends with Debbie and her husband Phil they began to attend our church. Debbie says she remembers seeing me perspire and get winded so easily as I preached and moved around on stage. As much as I hate to hear that…she’s probably right.
I had blown up to 270 pounds and at 5’8” felt miserable. My family means everything to me, but I was in a cycle where I had no energy. I would fall asleep within minutes of sitting in my recliner. I would avoid putting my girls to sleep at night because frankly my chest hurt when I walked up the stairs to their room. I always prayed for an all American boy and God gave me just that. Now I was wasting that gift by being so out of shape I didn’t even want to kick a ball around with him or wrestle on the living room floor. Ridiculous! An athlete who was on his way to diabetes, hypertension, destroyed joints, and the stress that comes to a marriage when a man wont be a man. Not only was there a strain on my personal life, it was affecting me as a leader as well. I had lost my confidence, and leadership edge. You can’t lead people if you don’t lead yourself.
It still hurts to even think about that because that wasn’t me. Deep inside I was the confident and disciplined leader with an athletic edge who owned the respect and admiration of his family. I needed someone to help reach in and pull that back out of me.
Debbie Roness was that someone. She put me on a healthy eating plan, trained me for three days a week, and got me doing cardio 5 days a week. Debbie has been a source of encouragement, education, and discipline. With out her help I would not have lost 60lbs in five months (from 270 to 210). I would not have developed the strength and stamina I now have. I am mountain biking with 20 year olds and holding my own. I would not see the pride my wife and children have when they look at me and we do “high impact” family activities. I would not be the leader that my staff and church need me to be. And I would not be the man that I knew I was, but needed someone to help me find again.
Debbie you helped me find me and for that I will forever be grateful!
Thank you!
-The Wiseman’s (Ross, Amie, Adalee, Aubrynn, & Grant)
9 comments:
Congratulations Pastor Ross; I am excited to hear that you have been able to shed the weight that so easily ensnared you.:-) Just kidding; this is Adam Letner and I used to attend Pastor Rob Yanok's church in Mansfield (CitiChurch and Abundant Life). I don't know if you'll remember her but I also married Misty Dyer. This article plus Pastor Rob's testimonial have been the encouragement and "kick in the butt" that I need to lose the weight. I went from 180 to 265 and I am miserable. Thanks again and I am glad to hear the church is going well.
Whatever it takes Adam...do it!!!
Let me know how you are doing.
Hey PR, you are rockin, keep up the awesome work! I'm with you on those last pounds, 25 to go for me too. :)
I haven't forgotten about you my friend. I still owe you some lunch and a check. It's been a long time coming, but I will make it happen sooner rather than later.
Congrats!
Way to go Ross. Congratulations on a terrific achievement and a whole new lifestyle.
Aimee,
Thanks for the encouragement. Whichever one gets the 25 off first can buy the other a Deschner's pizza next time we're in Ohio.
Tell my bro Gary hey. BTW your photos are amazing.
J.R.
Hey bro I had forgotten about the money, but I do appreciate it. I'm really looking forward to lunch and hearing all that God is doing with you and the great church you are leading!
Ross
Roger,
Your story has always been in the back of my mind. Thanks for leading the way! Hope to see you again soon.
Ross
Ross I am so proud of you my friend! You are the man!!! After reading Perry's blog about weight loss and reading your story...that's it am lossing this freaking weight. Thanks for being transparent about your weight it has truly inspired me. We got to get together for lunch soon!
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